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Cake day: July 15th, 2023

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  • Do something or go somewhere neither of you has been or done before.

    If it’s enjoyable for both of you, you win. If it’s not fun, you get to bond with each other over not liking it.

    People naturally bond when experiencing something together for the first time and feel the same way about it. If you feel the opposite about the experience, then you know you are less likely to be compatible.

    The most important part is to be honest about how you feel about the experience, and be honest immediately if you don’t like it. “This is terrible, right?”

    My marriage is the result of several weeks exploring the town. Other dates were not honest about not liking something, and the relationship didn’t last. Wife to be felt the same way about places we tried as I did. If it was a terrible experience and we both thought so, it would bring us closer together just as much as a positive one. In fact, the terrible experiences were sometimes the best because we would laugh together about how bad it was. It’s like taking a compatibility test.