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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • See, you went off on her without mentioning once that she’s trans.

    Donald Trump is a spoiled toddler who rapes children. See, no mention of his race or gender identity.

    It’s pretty easy to not stereotype. Complaining that the same folks asking you not to, are the ones online who would, is more of the same.

    Because I am asking you not to, and I don’t do that. I’m also a trans white woman with a teenage son. So, please don’t stereotype either one of us.





  • Not trolling.

    But randomly capitalizing words to express your outrage is off-putting. So is pointing at your PhD multiple times when you feel defensive.

    Anyway, the answer to your first question answers the rest.

    Not everyone agrees that fascism is bad. Yes, it’s what we were supposed to learn in school. But our country has its own history of genocide, racism, and hate. And we largely teach that greed and stepping on others is how to get ahead. I mean, we’re taught the golden rule. But also to be successful even if it means turning a blind eye to the harms you cause.

    Our unresolved racial and genocidal karma is also very easy to tap into when folks are scared or feeling stepped on.

    Which makes it very easy for a demogague to make the case, you know, maybe fascism isn’t that bad.

    Couple this with billion dollar propaganda machines and a lack of critical thinking skills taught in some religions and educational systems, and most folks on the right don’t realize that anti-antifa is logically pro-fascim. And the rest don’t care as long as they get theirs and the right people get hurt.


  • Let go of my defense mechanisms and cracked my egg on mushrooms.

    Imagine getting out of bed and realizing you’re a forty year old trans woman, who absolutely hates her entire wardrobe. And in a world that stigmatizes gender non-conformity.

    But my partner was very supportive, and I spent the next few months replacing my wardrobe. Started on HRT. And life got better.

    Scary. Still scared. But now I know I can love and be myself. And communication and understanding between my partner and I is much better too.