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  • Because you’re not as likely to play games with him, the way younger girls might. Emotional maturity is a very attractive thing, if you’re looking for something stable that doesn’t include a lot of unnecessary drama. It’s hard to find that when you’re in your 20’s.

    Most girls you get together with at that age, haven’t even figured out what they want yet. You might get attached, just in time for her to decide she needs something you don’t have. By the time you’re in your 40’s, you pretty much know what you want and what you don’t. There’s a lot less confusion and guesswork going on…and that can be very reassuring.

    In the end, it really depends on what you want from him, though. If he makes you happy, fuckin’ go for it. At the very least, you have some fun. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity, just because of his age. There are plenty of real red flags to look out for, without also adding arbitrary rules to the list.