Nah I think you’ve gone too far off the wrong end. People talking about ‘adulting’ is a joke, it just references being uncomfortable with not having someone with more ‘authority’ to fall back on, and it’s something that is cited in various ways over the millenia in various media.
I don’t think what you’re proposing is wrong in terms of ‘would it be beneficial’ but I don’t think it wholly misses the idea of ‘is it feasible’ and not just in monetary terms. As it stands, today, if I had to raise my kids in a ‘village’ in this state, I’d sooner enroll them in Scientilogy For Kids in hopes the joint brainwashing cancels itself out.
I don’t know what you just said, but I didn’t like it