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Cake day: August 1st, 2023

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  • I’m an avid reader, and I like reading in original language. That has brought me in a variety of rabbit holes, including trying to learn Russian, then Japanese. Unfortunately, I forgot most of it. I also forgot most of my ancient Greek, but my Latin is still vaguely useful. My German and Spanish never reached the “I can read anything” level, that is a shame because I really want to read the Don Quixote and Goethe… But I’m proud to easily read in 3 languages, struggling in 2-3 others (depending how much dictionary use is allowed).

    I haven’t been able to find a community of people that like this. Most like a specific culture and go deep into a single language.


  • I have smaller white whales, every year or so I remember something cool from some 4-5 years ago, usually quite niche, and I am rarely able to find it.

    Yesterday, I remembered a music video from the lockdowns. Poppy music with a catchy refrain, the two artists on screen, singer and electric piano player, jungle inspired decorations. A pineapple on the keyboard. I’m sure if I could remember even a couple of words of the refrain I would be set… but somehow i remember that the artists were set in NY.


  • My department has been complaining to the big boss that we need more people. People have been retiring for years with barely one new hire per two empty positions. And now… I am in long term sick leave (protected) and shit is coming dooooown. Not enough people to cover all the projects. Multiple projects put on hold for the time being, others being roughly merged. People are pissed.




  • I hopped around in Europe with no problem: applied online to jobs, as soon as i got a job found a place. If you are young with little commitments and there is no bureaucracy hindering you, relocating is super easy. Nowadays, with a family with young kids, relocating is much more of a commitment. Luckily we really like it here, so we are not planning a new move any time soon.

    Brief timeline:

    • did my bachelor in my hometown
    • did a 6 months student transfer
    • decided I didn’t want to go back, applied for a new university outside the EU (no visa needed for students)
    • found two internships during my master in two different EU countries (no visa needed, unpaid so no tax hurdles)
    • found a phd position in a new EU country (no visa needed, moved with two suitcases and an easyjet plain ticket)
    • moved to US for a temporary position (this was actually bureaucratically demanding, the move took 8 months between getting the job and being there)
    • moved back to EU without a job prospect, found a temp job in a country I had already visited (no visa problems)
    • moved again for a fixed position (last move, with a kid, took some 3 months to plan out)

  • Just to mess with you, I’m tempted to write a dozen comments with no real content… but other than that: i think it’s quite normal. Floods of negative reactions are more likely than positive ones, and more feared. In the other hand, Lemmy is a pretty chill place and, even when I got negative reactions, they were still cordial.

    All in all, we are social monkey, and we care a lot about our social capital. That used to be the difference between survival by and death in nature, and we are still rooted that way. Even if we are accruing social capital with anonymous internet users we will likely never meet in person



  • will keep me going for a long time along with the money

    This depends entirely on you. I chose my path in life thinking “what can I do today and still be passionate to do tomorrow?” And here I am, some 15 years later, still liking my everyday tasks.

    Some comments: not many writers have an income stream out of their work. Many have a little extra at the end of the month, most have their name on a book and that’s it. The Steven King/Rowling/… are few and far between.

    A degree in Physics opens many doors if you do it seriously: physics research and coding being the two main one, but not only.

    All comments we can give are local to us, your location and the society around you really influences the options. Talk to your seniors and professors and anyone willing to answer your questions about the job market. Think outside of the box but look at the data around you before jumping ship.



  • Italy: always offering (and accepting) food or drinks while visiting. It’s impossible and/or incredibly rude to pass by a friend’s house without getting at least a coffee or a glass of water.

    Netherlands: cold lunch. Traditionally, you’d have only one hot meal a day, and lunch would be sandwiches. I don’t mean to say that sandwiches don’t happen in other countries, but that hot lunches are basically unheard of in NL.

    US: everyone has one or multiple cars. Walking to the grocery store means you are basically destitute. (That was quite the culture shock!)